Lots of the answers are legal ones...
Bill's answer hits most points but I thought I'd jump in on a couple things from a distributor's point of view.
First, know your local laws. They change not only state to state but municipality to municipality. I'll give some examples below based on Georgia law.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
Minimums: There are no minimums
In these times of rising fuel costs more and more distributors are instituting minimums. It may be a dollar amount or a case count. We won't send a truck out for less than $100 or three cases. It just isn't cost effective. It costs more to drive the truck than we make in profit on the order. For things like that we rely on our salespeople. If they have a great account (like your place sounds) they are usually willing to go the extra mile and drop off that one case of Dogfish Head Hellhound or De Ranke XX Bitter. However, I'd suggest using that for emergencies and not day to day or you'll lose the good will of a distributor's salesperson who is ultimately responsible for helping you get "the good stuff." Bottom line is that a good distributor takes care of good customers.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
it is illegal for a distributor to charge different prices to different retailers.
This is true and in some states it's legal for distributors to build "roundhouse" pricing allowing a retailer to buy 50 cases of beer (any brands) and get the benefit of the 50 case discount on all the brands with it. This means you could buy one case of 50 different brands and get the same discount as if you ordered 50 cases of one brand. This doesn't mean all brands have a discount though. There are breweries that will not allow a distributor to place a discount on their beers. Ask your distributors. They know the laws.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
Tap handles: It is a privilege for a distributor to sell you beer.
It is also a cost. More and more breweries are charging their distributors $10, $20, $30 or more for a single tap handle. It is considered "sales material" so I can give it to a retailer but if that retailer only pours one keg and then moves on to another, I take the handle back. If a retailer puts on a beer as a permanent line then they can keep the handle until they stop pouring it.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
Therefore, they should be responsible for any POS materials, from tap handles (standard) to glassware (this may be tricky in ID; it is a pain to get glassware to bars in IA) and signs and junk and stuff.
POS is definitely the distributor's responsibility but factor in again the cost. Most breweries charge the distributor for the POS (most times they split the cost) and it all comes out of everyone's marketing budgets. Coasters, posters, tin signs, etc. are easy to come by. Expensive neons are not as available.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
Providing and selling glassware: Yes. Absolutely.
In Georgia, it is illegal for a distributor to provide a retailer with glassware or anything "of value." Since an on premise account HAS to have glasses the State does not consider glassware as POS ... even if it's covered in a brewery's logo. We have to charge for glassware (including sales tax since the account is the end user). As a distributor we don't see ourselves as a glass company but we know the importance of having branded glasses available. To this end, we just pass them straight through to the retail side with no markup. If a brewery charges me $1 a glass I sell them to the retailer for the same. Check your local laws.

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
I wouldn't go so far as the Belgians do and have a logo-bearing glass for every beer you could possibly find, but find the more popular glasses and styles
If you have a large doorman with x-ray vision then I'd say go ahead with all those special glasses. But if not, build in the cost of lots of lost glassware into your business model. I'm not saying your customers will steal them but it's funny how many "accidentally" fall into purses and coat pockets. Even the Delirium Cafe has stopped using their own branded glasses when the daily loss rate hit 400 glasses A DAY!

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
and make sure you teach people how to properly CLEAN THEM.
Amen. Amen. Amen. The second best thing in which I tell new craft beer bars to invest is a glass rinser. Nothing says "I care" like a beer clean glass.
The number one thing? A chalk board for the rotating beers!

Originally Posted by
william.heinric
Brewery relations through a distro: Yes. If they're not sending you reps, then they don't care enough. They had better have some pretty damn good beer if that's the case, or you shouldn't bother with them.
A great craft beer distributor can go a long way to helping retailers with the many different beers out there but no one can tell a brewery's story like the brewery itself. Don't exclude your favorite brewery just because they don't have a rep in the market. Go ahead, pour the beer and then invite the brewmaster to come for a visit.
And like Bill said ... Good luck and please let me know when you open. If you are using City Beer as a model then I definitely want to come in for a visit if I'm in your town.
David Little
Beer Consigliere and IT Guy
Savannah Distributing
david@gabeer.com
912.233.1167 x102
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